Holidays and Divorce

The Holidays can be hell or they can be memorable. What do you have control over this season, and what do you want to remember in 2010? Create your memories for your family the way you want them this year. Perhaps you will want to start a new tradition or better yet, get rid of the ones you hate. The choice is yours. It is your families' experience to control, you don't have to do what your former spouse likes to do for the holidays. You can create your own traditions.

Holidays and divorce

Can you celebrate with your former spouse in the room? Some families are able to open presents together, others are not. What does it take to sit in the same room with your former spouse? It takes you being able to see the good side of them again, and it takes their ability to do the same thing.